This question is from a viewer who thinks his supposedly straight friend has a thing for him. The friend gives him random hugs and has given him a couple back massages. I don’t think this is definitive enough proof that this friend is gay. Click play to watch my full answer!
Hi Marc…once again you are giving excellent advice!
Hey Marc, I spent more time than I care to remember being ‘not gay’ so I was reluctant to express any interest in other guys, not because I wanted to avoid implying they were gay but because I didn’t want to seem gay to them. Looking back it was because I didn’t want to give myself away but at the time I wanted to avoid implying I was gay when I was denying that to myself. Too complicated? Yep!
Having said that, your advice is spot on. If you like a guy but don’t think he is gay, don’t push the issue, wait for him to make the move. Make the move yourself, you could be embarrassed, or depending where you live you could be assaulted or killed.