On Sept 10th (world suicide prevention day) I received an email from a young man asking for my thoughts on the subject. Here you go.
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On Sept 10th (world suicide prevention day) I received an email from a young man asking for my thoughts on the subject. Here you go.
Michael says
Are there any incidences of real romance developing from the porn stars, models, actors, … When they perform on set? Is it frequent? Does it ever become a problem?
How do you separate yourself emotionally when you perform in your scenes; especially, when it’s an intimate one and you are super attracted to your scene partner?
All that divorcing yourself emotionally, does it wear you out? Does it affect your real romance outside work? Since the lifespan in porn is relatively short, you can’t really afford to be burnt out. How do you stay focused and committed to your craft? Will you direct, produce, scout, cast gay porn in the future? Mmm…will we see a Marc Dylan Productions?
I keep fucking up my fuck buddies relationship. Because I get romantically involved which ends my fuck buddy relationship. So, I’ve been going to the sex clubs and bath houses. I’m in the closet. I should be out soon when my duties in taking care of my mom ends. My dad past away in 2007. Clock is ticking. I’m 43 but look young. I’m a hot mess when it comes to dating and relationships. I only know how to have sex. Talking and getting romantic, building a solid relationship is so foreign to me. Had many suitors but failed cuz I couldn’t come out & leave family. Hired escorts and masseurs in the interim but that makes my emotions worse. I wanted to hire you for massage, but i chicken out cuz i know i would get so emotional and swoon at your beautiful body!
I can’t stand dance clubs. Music too loud. But it is a great way to meet guys. Did online. Found great guys, but I sucked in building something solid. Ended with one night stand.
I have to separate having fun and being emotionally attached. So hard to do. Is there a secret to this madness between love & sex? Help! Thanks Marc!!! Save me with your helpful advice! Muah!!
Just tested myself on Thu 9/25/14. All good! HIV neg and got prescription for Truvada! Thank you for your review! I ❤ you, Marc Dylan! What a man!
Lastly, can you give some tips to start small on investing and slowly grow from there? What did your grandpa taught you on investing? How do you find a good broker? Or should you do it on your own?
Carlos Alberto Machado says
Hi Marc Dylan,
I watched your video about if people should pay for Porn and I agree with you that everybody should pay for it, because it is a form of entertainment just like music, theater, sports. You guys that work in this industry are professionals and provide not only entertainment , but a social service ( which would be the relieve of stress of everyday life). I don’t know what the Labor Laws say about this industry (if you guys have Health Insurance, some plan of retirement, etc.).
Other topic that is related in part with this above is in another video of yours that you mention about suicide. Like Fashion Models, to work in this industry is basically about age. When you get old, there is no more job. And this subject (suicide) touches me a lot, cause half of my life I’ve been with this in my mind (loneliness, being in the closet for too long). It turns out that a month ago (September 14) when I turned 50, I gave myself a treat and I had a good time with a guy from Rentboy, only to learn that a person that I used to see in videos had committed suicide. I didn’t know that Arpad Miklos had killed himself. I saw him in person on a Hustlaball party in New York years ago. The news about him put me down for days. I wish I could do something to help him, or anybody that is in this situation.
Sorry for this long letter and I want to say I love your site and I wish I can meet you in person one day. You are a beautiful person inside and out and I wish you great success and happiness.
Carlos Machado