As I was being massaged by a beautiful young man last night, my mind wandered to a time not too long ago when the very thought of being touched intimately by any person would have sent me into a panic. Was it the way I was brought up as a child? Living through the Plague years? My own homophobia? My feelings that my physical being did not reflect the Gay male ideal?
As I matured, I came to realize that I craved the touch of another man. Not so much as in a sexual encounter, where often I found myself not fully engaged in truly feeling the connection with another man. But it was in needing the warm embrace of strong arms, the gentle caress of fingers gently stroking my hair and cuddling in all its manifestations.
I have reached a point in my life that I know longer fear the touch. It enriches me…Makes me vibrant..connects me in ways I could never imagine..
I challenge all of you to partake in this wonderful human experience. I can assure you that it will bring you joy…
Frank
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Richard says
I often wonder about this experience myself the only thing is with me i dont really like my body
when i ask around for a massage some massuers seem like they dont want to touch you based on the stats you give them
and this makes me think twice about getting a massage,sometime soon i hope to experience this feeling!!
frankie says
Thank you Richard for your comment. I hope that you will find a masseur that will treat you with the full respect and dignity that you certainly deserve. A professional will not ask you for your statistics and will not judge you on your physical appearance. His job is to make you feel good. Remember that your skin is an organ comprised of countless nerve endings. And when stimulated by touch, will improve both you physical and spiritual well-being. Please give it another chance. YOU deserve it!!!
Richard says
Thank you Frankie i will currently i am a plus size guy and my confidence is not there,there a lot of open minded men
that will massage men of my size i will keep looking!!!
Peter Morris says
I am a straight man but I love the touch of another man. I am fortunate to have a great gay massage therapist who caresss my bdy in beautiful ways.
Frank says
Thank you Peter for your comment. I am happy that you have a massage therapist that is able to meet both your physical and emotional needs. There have been many scientific studies that demonstrate the power of massage in helping a person achieve an optimum degree of well being. Let’s all continue spreading the word on the benefits of the human touch…..