You answer on open relationships was a great one. I do feel that some of the dangers of open relationships can apply to 3-ways. Especially when there is an obvious chemistry between two and not all 3. It is to easy for one partner to hook up with the third outside the relationship.
I think the best way to allow 3-ways is to hire a professional escort.
Ericsays
Marc,
First off, just wanted to say, your probably one of the most down to earth genuine guys I’ve ever met online & I really enjoy your discussions, keep them up please! Also, I’m Pleasantly surprised to see such a level headed guy in the porn industry not being destroyed by it. So here is my Question. Do you believe it’s possible for you to have a healthy long term relationship while maintaining a career in porn. I was in a relationship with a guy who was an escort & although he continued to tell me “it was just for the money”, my conscience was tortured even though I realize you can’t buy love. I knew he had close “friendships/relationships” while escorting because they were repeat clients who paid him well for years. And I’m certain my guy enjoyed his job also. I agree with you completely about open relationships, not possible, therefore how would your guy be able to separate your work from the relationship. It’s def spiritual & emotional. Also, how do you manage to separate the work from your emotional health. My relationship ended but I know he felt “guilt” cuz of his behavior each time he returned from work. Your answers & opinion await. Take care Marc & I look forward to meeting you in person during your next visit to California.
Robert Dolan says
You answer on open relationships was a great one. I do feel that some of the dangers of open relationships can apply to 3-ways. Especially when there is an obvious chemistry between two and not all 3. It is to easy for one partner to hook up with the third outside the relationship.
I think the best way to allow 3-ways is to hire a professional escort.
Eric says
Marc,
First off, just wanted to say, your probably one of the most down to earth genuine guys I’ve ever met online & I really enjoy your discussions, keep them up please! Also, I’m Pleasantly surprised to see such a level headed guy in the porn industry not being destroyed by it. So here is my Question. Do you believe it’s possible for you to have a healthy long term relationship while maintaining a career in porn. I was in a relationship with a guy who was an escort & although he continued to tell me “it was just for the money”, my conscience was tortured even though I realize you can’t buy love. I knew he had close “friendships/relationships” while escorting because they were repeat clients who paid him well for years. And I’m certain my guy enjoyed his job also. I agree with you completely about open relationships, not possible, therefore how would your guy be able to separate your work from the relationship. It’s def spiritual & emotional. Also, how do you manage to separate the work from your emotional health. My relationship ended but I know he felt “guilt” cuz of his behavior each time he returned from work. Your answers & opinion await. Take care Marc & I look forward to meeting you in person during your next visit to California.